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Subject Topic: Time to say goodbye
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02/2/2013 at 9:25am
 Location: Bootle
 Outfit: various tents & A steam train
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Goodbye, and take care.    
Remember that you will be most welcome back if you, at a later point, decide that you would once again like to go camping.

I understand - my dad read the Telegraph everyday - and I always used to read his copy - when he died a couple of years ago, I found it very hard to pick up a copy and read it - yet he had a couple of nice jumpers that I have kept and wear.   It is now one of the papers that I will read - although I still can't fathom out the large crossword - and can smile at the play on words in the small one - which at first was something that I found hard.   My dad always looked first and then would hand the paper to me - and we would either agree that it was cleaver or a groan.


02/2/2013 at 11:08am
 Location: North Yorkshire
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So sorry to hear about the loss of your husband.
Take care of yourself and remember that your UKCS friends will always be here for you xxx

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Helen xx
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02/2/2013 at 11:51am
 Location: south cheshire
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(((((hugs))))

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02/2/2013 at 11:53am
 Location: east midlands
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So sorry for you your loss, I hope your memories of the joyful days camping with your husband wrap their warmth around you and give you many comforting hugs.


02/2/2013 at 12:32pm
 Location: Lichfield
 Outfit: Coachman Amara 450
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So sad to hear of your loss but when you lose your partner it has to be one of the hardest things to have to deal and come to terms with no matter how many years you have been together so my heart felt feelings sincerely go out to you. You obviously have fond memories to cherish with your husband but you always still need good friends in both good and bad times so I wish you all the best for the future and remember, there's always a place here on this forum if you feel the need to come back. 


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02/2/2013 at 12:41pm
 Location: Chateau du Wirral
 Outfit: VW T4 and quechua base second
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I know you and your husband were mad keen on your regular jaunts to France, like many of the regulars on the ukcs camping abroad forum. Your enthusiasm was obvious, and your comments on all things French were always welcome.

Im very sorry to hear your news. I can't imagine how you feel, but I can understand why camping wouldn't be the same. Who knows what the future holds.

I hope you stick around.

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John

May/June.....France
Aug.......somewhere else in France


02/2/2013 at 2:11pm
 Location: Lancashire
 Outfit: Coachman 460 VIP; VW Tiguan
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I didn't know you, but have read many posts by you. I am so very sorry to hear you lost your husband and can well imagine that caravanning no longer holds any interest for you.

Perhaps sometime in the future you will feel able to come back to UKCS, you do have a wealth of experience to share with others, so until then, please take care.

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02/2/2013 at 2:27pm
 Location: STAFFORD
 Outfit: sold outfits since being widowed.
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Dear Judy, I lost my hubby  suddenly 18 months ago due to a stroke, it all happened within 24 hours, and like you I sold the caravan, and car, as I don,t drive anymore. As the days go on you seem to carry on in disbelief, and some days are better than others. I must admit to being helped by all the kind words I received from the lovely people on here.

I so miss our camping days, thats why I still come on here to read about others holidays, and hopefully I can contribute to some questions. So what I,m saying is you don,t have to leave this forum, unless that is it is too upsetting for you.

After 18 months I have even been thinking of buying a cheap caravan, and having it put on a seasonal pitch that I can reach by train. Believe me Judy it will get easier, but it takes time. Much love, and prayers to you dear. xx



02/2/2013 at 6:24pm
 Location: Cumbernauld Scotland
 Outfit: Monty 6Icarus 500 Halo 300
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There are many tables and places for discussion on these forums Judy...Would personally miss your contributions on here...But can fully understand why you might feel this is not the place for you at this particular time...

I would keep my membership "Live" on here...And dispense aid and help to newbies or the inexperienced when needed or asked for...

Jelboy.

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Campers of the storm,Into this world are born

Some days are Diamonds...Some days are stone...


02/2/2013 at 8:47pm
 Location: barnsley south yorks
 Outfit: 2012 coachman amara 550 5 ford kuga
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hi judy sorry for your loss but please stay with group im sure your partisipation will help you in the grieving process. you have been a valued member on this site and im sure you will be sadly missed

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thorpe park 27th apr - 1st july

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02/2/2013 at 9:07pm
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I can't find the words, but take care.


02/2/2013 at 9:08pm
 Location: None Entered
 Outfit: outwell vermont xl
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Hi Judy

So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear hubby.  I can understand that you don't feel able to be on here any more......but please just say au revoir for a little while and come back when you feel able - perhaps just reading the posts for a while before you feel able to contribute if need be?  Take your time, do what feels right for you and be gentle with yourself.

Julie x



03/2/2013 at 7:57pm
 Location: Shropshire
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Huge hugs Judy xxx You have had a horrible time of it xxxx.


But I am really pleased that you have finally managed to sell your van xxxx

As the others have said you dont have to leave xx

love and hugs as always xxx

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03/2/2013 at 8:05pm
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All the best Judy..xx


03/2/2013 at 8:09pm
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A lovely person and will be truly missed on here xxxx

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Animals have feelings..

JEFF................


03/2/2013 at 8:26pm
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Hi Judy,

We owe you the introduction to Pin Parasol and had the pleasure in meeting you both there.

We have exchanged a few words elsewhere recently but there is nothing that I can add to the sentiments already written here.

There will be a time however, when you can look back and smile at your life together, remembering the good times and the laughs that you both shared, and the common joys that you both experienced.

May that day not be too far distant.

With our deepest sympathy.

David and Sandra




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