Advertisement
Message Forums |
|
 Topic: Worst mother in the world.........
|
Page: 1 2
  |
31/1/2014 at 12:56pm
Location: Ayrshire
Outfit: Trigano Tribute 669
View Profile
Reply
Quote
|
Joined: 24/3/2013 Gold Member 
Forum Posts: 291
| Site Reviews Total: | 0 |
|
| Site Reviews 2024: | 0  |
| Site Reviews 2023: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2022: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2021: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2020: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2019: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2018: | 0 |
|
| Site Nights 2024: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2023: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2022: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2021: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2020: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2019: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2018: | 0 |
|
You have done the right thing - don't beat yourself up. Motherhood is very hard!
I am a mum of 2 girls, 14 and nearly 12. I don't work and I absolutely do not stand for having to do everything in the house. I do the bulk of it, of course. But I gave up work to raise my girls, not be cinderella. For a long time, both my girls know that if their clothes don't make it into the laundry basket, they don't get washed. If their rooms aren't tidy, they don't get dusted and hoovered. My hubby is away a lot and I suffer with a chronic bowel condition, so they HAVE to do their bit around the house.
In my experience, it's made them really helpful and responsible. Don't get me wrong - sometimes I have to fight them off their Nintendoes or the computer, but we get there in the end!
Your daughter, if she has left home, just needs a nudge in the right direction. She'll never learn if she doesn't do things herself! She should bake in her own house and then learn never to say she'll do it again lol!
You're her mum, yes. But sometimes "no" is said for their own good. You obviously love all your children and put them first. xx
-------------
Gillian
|
01/2/2014 at 6:16pm
Location: Ossett.West Yorkshire.
Outfit: Sold it. Looking for a new one.
View Profile
Reply
Quote
|
Joined: 27/1/2005 Silver Member 
Forum Posts: 156
| Site Reviews Total: | 3 |
|
| Site Reviews 2024: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2023: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2022: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2021: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2020: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2019: | 0 |
| Site Reviews 2018: | 0 |
|
| Site Nights 2024: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2023: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2022: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2021: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2020: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2019: | 0 |
| Site Nights 2018: | 0 |
|
Just had a Mother/Daughter problem here.
Eldest lives with her boyfriend, and they are expecting a baby. She has bought a pram which is virtually new, for a fraction of the new cost but the trouble is, it's 30 miles away. Wife was going to take her, but they have fallen out (Again.) and today she rang me and asked me to take her tomorrow, but I said no as I was at work today, and tomorrow is the only day I'll be having off. I told her to take it up with her Mum, and that I am not going to be part of their argument.
Trouble is, she expects to be ran around here, there and everywhere, but we have lives of our own, and her boyfriends Mum hasn't offered to take her either. So now we are getting from her that we won't see the baby etc etc, but I am not going to be treated like some kind of taxi when it suits her.
So am I being mean, or should she and her Mum get their heads together and sort their own mess out?
Post last edited on 01/02/2014 19:12:02
-------------
Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed by so many to so few.
Winston Churchill. 21st August 1940
|
|
|
9562 Visitors online !
Free UKCampsite.co.uk Window Sticker - Recommend to Friend - Add a Missing Campsite
[Message Forums]
[Caravan Sites & Camping]
[Company Listings]
[Features / Advice]
[Virtual Brochure]
[Shop!]
[Reception]
[Competitions]
[Caravans & Motorhomes For Sale]
[Event Diary]
[Contact Us]
[Tent Reviews]
Please note we are not responsible for the content of external sites & any reviews represent the author's personal view only. Please report any error here. You may view our privacy and cookie policy and terms and conditions here. All copyrights & other intellectual property rights in the design and content of this web site are reserved to the UKCampsite.co.uk © 1999 - 2024 |
Advertisement
|
|
|
Spent so long away in the armed forces .....that now its a joy to help out 
