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25/4/2013 at 6:37pm
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A client of mine is a single mum and was getting maintenance via the CSA and an attachment of earnings order. All was fine until the father jacked his job in.
They seemed to be unable to trace him via HMRC and DWP, so we thought he might working on a cash-in-hand basis. Then he boasted on FB about how great his new job was, including where he was working. A mutual friend asked him how he got the job there, and he gave the name of the agency he was working for.
I advised the client to print a screen grab of the FB pages and post them to the CSA wth a covering letter.
A month later, they have reassessed his maintenance, it's gone up by £30 a month and she's due £720 arrears! Job done.
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25/4/2013 at 8:41pm
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There is an annoying clause though that if the ex is employed via an agency its clased as 'temping' and as it can cease at a moment notice, the CSA will not set up an order to have the amount due stopped out of his wages.
This has happened to my daughter, she is remarried and has one child from a previous relationship, her little girls father works via an agency for one of the largest emplyers in the UK, and is very well paid, yet he refused to keep up his maintainace payments when he was supposed to pay them direct.
My daughter contacted the CSA, they did reassess the amount he was due to pay and increased it, but if he dont pay the money into her account, they will ring and chase him for it, but they refuse to set up an order to have it stopped out of his wages at source due to him working via an agency and being classed as a 'Temp' depite him working for the same agency for nearly two years now.
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26/4/2013 at 8:31am
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Quote: Originally posted by roofie41 on 26/4/2013Thanks all for your support - I know the answer is to go back to the CSA - but he is self- employed so attachment of earnings is not viable but he responded to them last time!
It's so annoying to have to do any of it - just wish he was a better man, would accept the responsibilty he has and pay up regularly and on time without me having to ask and chase!
Ruth
Yes, that would be the best case scenario, wouldn't it? Sadly, life doesn't seem to work like that. The fact he's self employed won't help things, especially if he has a good accountant who can cook the books.
It happened to me (O/H was self-employed, drove a Bentley, went on hols to America etc with his new family but paid our kids £8 a week each) and now our daughter is in the same boat: CSA have awarded £100 a month for her son, while her self-employed ex drives around in a brand new 45k car and owns 4 houses. Madness!
I think it's not just about the money in these situations, it's what it says about how your ex values his kids and respects you. Self-employed people seem to be able to manipulate the system to punish and penalise their ex partners, which can then cause no end of animosity and struggles, which of course rubs off on the kids. It's sh**ty, and there should be tighter controls and checks for the self-employed, where child support is involved.
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