Prefer the C&C sites but once we're on holidays there are no hard and fast rules.
if the day's been particularly active, we found that they were ready for bed at about 8pm and were so zonked they didn't stir till about the 8am.
If not that active we'd plan a good dinner and a walk down to the beach, up the hill, round the wood etc at dusk then hot choc and bed. Seemed to do the trick and we never really noticed what anyone else was doing.
We have 3 young children (8, 6 & 4) but do not let them run around etc. after about 8pm (ish) just in case they do disturb other campers. But like Lilli we usually have something planned to "knock them out" towards the end of the day so that they are not disturbed once in the sleeping bags.
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Started in Tents, then trailer Tent and now Caravan.
I was on a cub camp this weekend and nearby (it sounded VERY nearby) was a hotel with a wedding reception with a very loud (and not very good) band doing covers!!
We went to a Beavers & Cub camp this weekend. There were lots of different Scout and Guide groups there.
The site was great, but the constant whistling from the nearby group and the kids being frogmarched to the toilets at 6am was a minor inconvenience. The biggest problem though were groups of youngsters (probably aged about 10 - 14) who bullied our little ones (aged 6 - 8), calling them names, smashing the 'den' they were building and telling them they had sh&gged their mothers.... nice! not! god knows where their so called 'leaders' were.
This isn't for everyone, but it is just human nature and a quiet word can sometimes work. Not everyone has a parents perspective and some single guys having a good time can be quite receptive if you put it right. Get it wrong and you will probably get abuse.
Your situation can apply to hotel rooms, guest houses or just about anywhere the same people can frequent.
Took my first at 11 months old, would he go to bed without screaming for 20 mins? Most embarrasing. He was a very tantrumy toddler anyway and we were surrounded by very quiet Dutch families. After that he wasn't too bad and just kept him up till he couldn't keep his eyes open. Had to make sure we went for a drive at some stage in the day to catch up on sleep. Was always aware of him being an early riser but sometimes you just can't stop a 2 year old having a paddy at 6.30 am!
Took number 2 away from 6 months, he was the sort of baby who'd drop off without a prob and wasn't too bothered by noise. Just got back with them both at 2 and 6 years and they both stayed up till 10pm then woke at 8am. The youngest is one of those children who keeps going and can manage on not so much sleep. He doesn't melt down when tired!
Hard to cater for everybodys needs and only havng a bit of canvas between various holiday makers isn't ideal. I went to one event years back that had a curfew field. That would be nice on the larger campsites, it was little noise after 8 or 9pm. Normal talking but no loud music, shouting. Gives parents a chance to get young children to bed at an OK time, good chance all your neighbours will be early risers also!
If I thought my baby would scream for 20 minutes each bedtime, or paddy at 6.30am no way would I take them on a camping trip - I'd be mortified! but then if I snored like a train I wouldn't go camping in a tent either. Guess I am just too worried about what other people will think.
Hubby and I are becoming expert at having 'blazing' rows in silence LOL!
Problem with kids, you don't know what they'll do ;) At home he went to bed without a problem. End of the day I've always been to family orientated campsites, so I'm,sure nearly every family there had at least one noisy moment. This weekend there was a baby or toddler who cried several times in the night. I didn't mind, I'm sure it's something they didn't intend.
Sorry, I thought you were saying that it was normal for him to scream and tantrum (e.g. my nephew was a really unsettled baby and could scream for England, my sister sometimes brought him round and 'dumped' him for an hours peace because she just couldn't cope - and no way could he have been taken on holiday even to a hotel with 3ft thick walls!)
When we went to Brittany there was a toddler who screamed every single night, whinged all day, and all the parents did was scream back at it to shut up using some very choice language.
This weekend one of our group had a 9 wks old baby with her. It cried through the night a couple of times but as you say that is normal. I couldn't have coped camping with such a young baby so I think she was brave to take it along. Personally though I wouldn't have wanted to be camped right next to her (we were at the other end of the field).
Its the same on every holiday though. We went skiing with Esprit this year because it was cheap and we forgot that because it was during the school term it would mainly be families with toddlers - the flight and bus journeys were a nightmare and we vowed never again!
this thread seems to have gone off the subject ! babies and kids screaming sometimes happens as it is part of growing up , the problem i had was with THE ADULTS screaming and shouting not the little kids on site !
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highfields , ashbourne , derbyshire.(been and enjoyed it, review posted)
Bottom line is that when you camp you have to put up with the fact that not everyone is at the same 'life stage' as you - everyone will have gripes about the behaviour of other people on a campsite as nobody is perfect. Adults shouldn't be screaming and shouting at any time, but it happens.
If you want a site with no noisy adults then look for ones that are very child friendly, who don't allow campfires, restrict single sex groups etc. but you still can't stop the parents of other children letting their hair down or arguing with each other.
In France the rule is normally no noise after 11pm and most sites we have been to have been pretty quiet and well patrolled. Unfortunately for those who like peace and quiet in the morning there is no 'early' curfew. Therefore for us the early mornings have always been more of a problem than the late nights. I don't want my kids woken at 5am by someone elses as once they are awake they are awake, then I have to entertain mine and try and keep them quiet and they become pains later in the day when they are so tired which is not their fault but gets us all stressed. If they get woken in the evening they just sleep a bit longer in the morning so it doesn't have the same effect.
To answer your original question:
A good rule of thumb in the summer I think is that it should go quieter when it goes dark (10pm?), and silent by midnight.
In the mornings I think 8am is reasonable, maybe even 7, but certainly not any earlier - although tell that to a cockerell LOL!
I think if a 7 month old is being disturbed by the noise in the evening then maybe tent camping isn't the right thing at this stage for that particular baby?