Last year, we lent our Outwell Sun Valley out to a friend who hadn't ever camped before.
They brought it back and said they had ripped it a tiny bit and apologised and asked if I wanted any money for the repair, which I declined - I figured tenacious tape would sort it.
I asked if it was damp, but they said it didn't rain and that it was dry when they put it away.
For one reason or another, I didn't put it up to. check or fully dry it. It sat in our hall for a couple of weeks, bad weather and busy lives got in the way. I did unroll it, and it seemed dry, so I just put it away.
Needless to say, I pitched it this weekend and there was mildew all over the inner and a almost every panel of the tent.
I don't blame my friend - they wouldn't have known. I should have known better and it has cost me a tent that I could have had another few years' use out of.
So now I'm hunting for a new tent, and the cash to spend on one!
Let this be a lesson to you when you think "it was dry - no need to air it off..."
Very sorry to hear of your loss of your tent .
After all you were very kind to lend It to your friend .
Its not a nice lesson to learn . At least you have not blamed the other party ,and forgiven them . Its just that you lent It In good faith .
But Its still annoying to loose . I understand how you feel . So hopefully you get another tent and an even better one . Good luck .
ZIZAG .
Quote: Originally posted by dmsplat on 26/5/2014
I really loved that tent - I really almost cried.
What`s that saying Dave? "Big Boys don`t cry". I think I would have felt the same. My son couldn't believe it when I told him I don't lend tents to anyone when he asked to borrow ours. Hope you get the tent you want and at the right price. Geoff
You have true generosity of spirit - not only in lending your tent (I'm not sure I would TBH) and then to blame yourself AND to share your cautionary tale with us all.
I do hope you have luck finding the cash and a new tent that suits you now (not a replacement).
OP, I hope you'd find the funds and a new tent to suit your needs soon!
As I have already replied in another thread, I do not intend to lend my gears out as I do not expect others to look after them the way I do.
Good luck!
DK
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Gutted for you, and admire your attitude towards the borrowers.
Our first tent was quite inexpensive, but we remain impressed with it. However, we have no intention of parting with it, even though we don't need it any more. Simply because it leaves us with a great little tent that we can happily lend to family, without too much worry about damage.
Our new tent would be a different matter entirely
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Funny you should write this. A very good friend borrowed our SV8 last summer, I have a horrible feeling I might be opening a mildewy tent as I've not been able to put it up since. Ours is surplus to requirements and I was hoping to sell it to get some cash to put towards this year's holiday. It did mean that a family got a holiday they wouldn't have otherwise had, and I only lent it out knowing it might not come back.
I have never torn a tent, I once broke a pole whilst pitching the tent while suffering dehydration, but I try never to damage my tents through neglect. So how come the moment one lends out a tent it can be considered doomed?
I think people don't care as much about other people's stuff as they would do their own, especially if they don't understand their emotional as well as financial worth. (Oddly I'm more worried about other people's things if I'm using them)
I remember many many years ago wild camping by a loch with a group and we had built a large fire so I moved my brand new tent out the way as there were loads of sparks. Left the tent for a while and came back to find it had been repitched right next to the fire and had several burns on it (each a couple of cm across). Totally broke my heart. The ones that moved it couldn't understand my upset as to then it was just a tent a replaceable. I've been very precious about my tents from then on. So won't loan them out to even my best friends.
If that had happened to me girlwomble I would have been livid. I would like to think most of my friends would have offered to replace it though. I would have accepted the offer too!! If they had shrugged it off as no big deal they would have stopped being my friends instantly.
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Aw I do sympathise.
We have been asked for a loan of our tent a couple of times, but we're blue meanies and said no.
We love our tent too, and would be really sad if someone else ruined it...even unintentionally.
I must admit my DH was adament when we got our tent that we wouldn't lend it to anyone. At first I thought he was mean, but now I realise that not only is it our pride and joy but we wouldn't want to jeoporidise friendships over it should it get damaged. Very few people look after things as well as you do if you own it!
We borrowed a friends tent once. We struggled to relax as we so worried about damaging it. It was treated with kid gloves all weekend. As said though, not everyone is as careful unfortunately.