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24/7/2018 at 12:06pm
Location: North Herts
Outfit: Monterey4 Cabanon E
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Duffs, I typed a reply yesterday but I think the UKCS server was having a meltdown and it didn't post. Just to say empathy, and can understand your sadness only too keenly. It does hurt. Maybe he'll have a rethink in a year and it's the post-op effects that are affecting him psychologically now the physical side is under control. It must be quite a thing to have something alien help to keep your heart keep beating and no doubt brings up all sorts of unconscious existential angst about annihilation, survival, agency, autonomy and potency. Maybe he feels guilt about not being as able to do as much as before and this manifests in projecting the 'too much effort' (for you...) and not just his own concerns. Male ego issues in short. 
We did have a good time, despite the little bit of mizzle, and he even helped strike the tent ... well, a bit... so that was a nod to rapprochement. He also said it would have been good to have stayed another night (which we couldn't due to my work, how ironic). It wasn't the same as a long stay in France in Esther (I know, I know, is there no pleasing this woman  .) 'She' now needs an outing as she's been stuck under the bed for 2 years.
Enjoy the camping weather whilst it lasts wherever it finds or takes you.
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24/7/2018 at 1:12pm
Location: Cambs
Outfit: Ford Duetto Autosleeper
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Quote: Originally posted by bridgeywidge on 24/7/2018
Duffs, I typed a reply yesterday but I think the UKCS server was having a meltdown and it didn't post. Just to say empathy, and can understand your sadness only too keenly. It does hurt. Maybe he'll have a rethink in a year and it's the post-op effects that are affecting him psychologically now the physical side is under control. It must be quite a thing to have something alien help to keep your heart keep beating and no doubt brings up all sorts of unconscious existential angst about annihilation, survival, agency, autonomy and potency. Maybe he feels guilt about not being as able to do as much as before and this manifests in projecting the 'too much effort' (for you...) and not just his own concerns. Male ego issues in short.
We did have a good time, despite the little bit of mizzle, and he even helped strike the tent ... well, a bit... so that was a nod to rapprochement. He also said it would have been good to have stayed another night (which we couldn't due to my work, how ironic). It wasn't the same as a long stay in France in Esther (I know, I know, is there no pleasing this woman .) 'She' now needs an outing as she's been stuck under the bed for 2 years.
Enjoy the camping weather whilst it lasts wherever it finds or takes you.
I'm sure I could do another 5 years at least in our tent, he's looking at caravans.................me towing, he doesn't drive if I'm in the car. we will see. We've still got all our gear too, which is still in the truck, I'm loathed to get it out in case he thinks he can do another camp.
Hope you get another outing soonest xx
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