We've had an inflatable for 11 months now. Only something like 16 nights so far, in all (UK) weathers, with another 15 to come in France, starting tomorrow.
Certainly no complaints here, so far. Absolutely love it.
Shaves a few minutes of pitching time, but loads less effort.
As for you "not trusting air", I'd say you need to concentrate less on the actual air, and more on what is keeping that air (or not!) where it should be, be that the tent tubes, or the bed.
Had Outwell Glendale 5 (poles) for 4 years, now have Outwell Concorde (Air) bought this year Pitching time a little bit quicker, but certainly much easier. Used 3 times this year in the UK with no problems to date.
Only concern is that I have a friend who had an Outwell Concorde beam explode on him whilst in France this year (also note a couple of other instances documented on here)
Fortunatley he has been sen a replacement, but correspondence from Outwell has informed him that if it is expected to be hot, air should be let out to allow for air expansion. Which will mean as it cools in the evening then surely a little air will need to be added?
Not a massive issue, but does mean that you effectively have to monitor your tent and weather, where as will poles it is pitch and forget.
I'd just posted why I chose air here, but basically, it's because we live in an apartment, very little space to pitch the tent outside and our air tent can be pitched (with some jiggling and clearly, not fully erected) inside, in our living/dining room.
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2015: Somerset, Highlands, New Forest (12 nights)
2016: France (in plan)
Poles, because of the extra bulk and weight of air tents. My partner is disabled so our tent has to be manageable by me on my own for those days when he can't help. We looked at air tents ( poly cotton) for that reason but the price and weight put us off. If it had not been for those factors, we would have gone for aN Outwell Concorde M.
Our canvas Cabanon Guadeloupe is spacious enough for us two, and a doddle for me to pitch single handed.... It is easy to handle as it splits into two bags, and the second hand price (£300) suited our budget too.
Your worries about airbeams are mainly unfounded. This technology has been around for a few years now and it has been developed and refined through time. Nothing is perfect, and there are lots of very good points being made about how we all weigh up the factors that are important to us in tent choice. I hope you find your way to a happy decision!
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