At Whitehill its especially nice to sit outside the bar on a warm evening. There is a nice terrace where you can sit overlooking the pool which is lit up at night.
Have added a bit to this post and cant delete the previous one,so just ignore it.
Have a good time, you probably are right not to go to Ladys Mile, our neighbours were there a few years ago, they came home early, said it was one of the worst sites they had ever been in.
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