I was going to recommend Middle Hill Farm CS at Manorbier near Tenby until I saw that you wanted hard standing, which they don't have. There is a beach, pub, shop, and restaurant within walking distance and they do have EHU as well as shower and toilet facilities. I left a review on here back in 2017 when we visited. Highly recommended but no hard standing, which suited as fine because we like to pitch any way round and have plenty of space around us, which we certainly did there.
I can recommend Stone Pitt caravan site Kilgetty. Welcoming owners, parked our van for us. Pub with restaurant within easy walking distance.Folly farm just up the road if you have kids with you. Request Bus stop outside site entrance takes you to Tenby.
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