Would love other caravanners opinions, do you like your temporary neighbours on campsites to invite you in/you invite them in and sit and yapper or do you prefer acknowledgement but nothing more than a passing hello?
Another hello and good morning, most conversations in and around the awning. Occasional, invite into the awning or van. It's a bit like chatting over the garden wall,
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i like a friendly hello followed by a little chat, but i must admit some ppl just walk pass without even looking at ppl, but that's up to them, im a friendly person anyway xx Gill
It takes the people im finding next to me on campsites,all their time just to grunt at you, never mind a good morning or a hello and, i find its the new comers not us ones who have been doing it for years..
Interesting point you make, its chemistry really, if you get on with the people next door you will chat, if you don't, you won't. It is noticeable how Brits on campsites build walls around themselves but in Holland particularly everybody chats.
On French campsites Brits tend to go out of their way to avoid each other seeminly as a matter of policy, ie "I've not come to France to speak to other Brits", whereas on any French site that is full of Dutch they will all be socialising, going for drinks etc with each other etc.
I don't really speak much French & I find I tend to talk to Dutch folk(who mostly speak English)when I'm on a camp site in France. The other Brits rarely speak.
The French have more formal way of doing it. They have an 'aperitif' at about 6pm where everybody brings a bottle of liqueur to the table & have a drink & chat for an hour & then go off to their respective dinners.
Quote: Originally posted by Tentz on 15/10/2011
Interesting point you make, its chemistry really, if you get on with the people next door you will chat, if you don't, you won't. It is noticeable how Brits on campsites build walls around themselves but in Holland particularly everybody chats.
On French campsites Brits tend to go out of their way to avoid each other seeminly as a matter of policy, ie "I've not come to France to speak to other Brits", whereas on any French site that is full of Dutch they will all be socialising, going for drinks etc with each other etc.
I don't really speak much French & I find I tend to talk to Dutch folk(who mostly speak English)when I'm on a camp site in France. The other Brits rarely speak.
The French have more formal way of doing it. They have an 'aperitif' at about 6pm where everybody brings a bottle of liqueur to the table & have a drink & chat for an hour & then go off to their respective dinners.
hummm I like the sound of that French way of meeting and parting lol
I am quite shy and find it hard to make the first move!
I always smile at my fellow campers and will say good morning. For longer conversations I am more than happy to chat so long as someone else makes the first move!!
Always say 'Hello' and am willing to have a bit of a chat but not willing to spend my holiday time entertaining what are essentially 'strangers'. Have invited people to have a glass of wine/beer/cup of coffee but don't expect them to become an extended part of the family :-)
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April - Trewethett, Tintagel
April - Santander - no caravan
May - The Willows, Abersoch
June - Killegruer, Mull of Kintyre
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Quote: Originally posted by Tentz on 15/10/2011Interesting point you make, its chemistry really, if you get on with the people next door you will chat, if you don't, you won't. It is noticeable how Brits on campsites build walls around themselves but in Holland particularly everybody chats.QUOTE
Tentz..I consider myself as one of the most sociable blokes on the plant,I seem to find im the first one these days to say hello how are you staying long ? where do you come from ?Only to be answered by a hello and that takes a lot out some folk. On another thread i said there were to many snobs going caravaning and this year was no exception..
I always say hello and am always up for a chat. Found this year, in our trailer tent that people's attitudes were very mixed. sOme people down right rude and grumpy. Unfortunately for them I then make it a bit of a mission to make them acknowledge my cheery hello.
This year has been our first year camping, so i am a new comer. I will always say Good morning, Hello, How are you? Are you well?. But that is how i am, i can't just walk within 6 feet of someone going to wash the pots and not try make eye contact and speak or just a smile and nod of the head. Some people aren't like that though, that is upto them. I am just a mear mortal i don't think i am better than anyone else, i will talk to anybody.